Mental Health Month

You Are Important! It is nice to know that you are important and also that you are worth taking care of yourself. With this month dedicated to mental health, i thought i could focus on doing my checking in and speaking about a few of the issues that some of us may be facing. You…

A Ray of Sunshine in the Midst of a Storm.

It has been a minute since my last post. And prior to this small break it had been a minute since i was engaging in social media. Believe me when i say that this may be one of the hardest things i will speak about here on my blog. For starters, it is something very…

Relationship Goals 2021

Sometimes, lets keep it real, we just don’t like to hear advice from anyone when we are going through personal things within our life. Especially if it has to do with our relationship. We think that people are being intrusive at times, or we may not value their opinion to begin with, so we think…

Hurting? Look at what your expectations are.

Why do we set ourselves up for constant bad situations? Why is it that we sometimes find ourselves hurting over things we saw coming from a mile away? This and many other questions roam our minds at times. Our hearts ache knowing that what led to the heartache was the very things we saw over…

“I Love You”, Self talk!

We often have a hard time understanding that love is universal. Some of us look into the details too much and believe that the way we love or others love us never measures up. The truth is we forget, very often, that love is inside of us and we have to identify it and treat…

Dealing with loss during these times and staying safe.

First, i would like to extend my deepest and most sincere condolences to those who have lost someone during these horrible times. Never in a million years we could have possibly imagine living through a time where we actually saw a pandemic happen, let alone see it affect us all in such a way. As…

Broken Promises part 2

As children, we often picture our life through a fairy tale lense. Some of us picture how our ideal friends should be and look forward to finding this said friend in every encounter we have with other kids. We quickly realize that it will never happen. Sadly, as we grow up we take those learned…

What men think we don’t know…. But we know. Part 1

For any experienced woman out there, i know some of these things will at least come close to something you may have gone through or are going through right now. Bare with me. If you are younger than 30, this definitely applies. Read on. The Lies Now hear me out on this. I am in…

Broken Promises… What’s the deal with that? Part 1

So many people do this, some more than others of course. But where do we draw the line? Who made up the rules to help you determine when it is ok or not ok to go through with a promise?. I mean, if someone proves to be unworthy of you, are you still obligated to…

Remote Learning… Is it too much?

I don’t even know where to begin. Remote learning sounded like such a great idea at first. Children could continue their education and keep busy, parents could help out a bit and help make it kind of fun. Heck, it just made sense, especially after the whole quarantine situation happened. So what happened? Well, lets…