Hurting? Look at what your expectations are.

Why do we set ourselves up for constant bad situations? Why is it that we sometimes find ourselves hurting over things we saw coming from a mile away? This and many other questions roam our minds at times. Our hearts ache knowing that what led to the heartache was the very things we saw over…

Broken Promises part 2

As children, we often picture our life through a fairy tale lense. Some of us picture how our ideal friends should be and look forward to finding this said friend in every encounter we have with other kids. We quickly realize that it will never happen. Sadly, as we grow up we take those learned…

Broken Promises… What’s the deal with that? Part 1

So many people do this, some more than others of course. But where do we draw the line? Who made up the rules to help you determine when it is ok or not ok to go through with a promise?. I mean, if someone proves to be unworthy of you, are you still obligated to…

Who do you depend on? Part 2

Why is there this sense of need to have someone to depend on so strongly expressed in our society today? Is it necessary? The more i think about it the more i come to the honest realization that perhaps it is this illusion created to keep our expectations at bay and ultimately make us vulnerable….