Hurting? Look at what your expectations are.

Why do we set ourselves up for constant bad situations? Why is it that we sometimes find ourselves hurting over things we saw coming from a mile away? This and many other questions roam our minds at times. Our hearts ache knowing that what led to the heartache was the very things we saw over…

Broken Promises part 2

As children, we often picture our life through a fairy tale lense. Some of us picture how our ideal friends should be and look forward to finding this said friend in every encounter we have with other kids. We quickly realize that it will never happen. Sadly, as we grow up we take those learned…

What men think we don’t know…. But we know. Part 1

For any experienced woman out there, i know some of these things will at least come close to something you may have gone through or are going through right now. Bare with me. If you are younger than 30, this definitely applies. Read on. The Lies Now hear me out on this. I am in…

Broken Promises… What’s the deal with that? Part 1

So many people do this, some more than others of course. But where do we draw the line? Who made up the rules to help you determine when it is ok or not ok to go through with a promise?. I mean, if someone proves to be unworthy of you, are you still obligated to…